and also driving back from your night shift and passing your brother on his bike while getting off the BQE 

 daylight savings is cool sometimes & so is a certain kind of determination 

if you write all the time about how miserable you are and leave it in a box somewhere for your kids to find you'll probably regret it, burn it before you die of self pity

getting your car towed is a certain kind of robbery but having a friend to bring you to breakfast while you wait for the tow man is friendship to the highest degree, a ceremony over burritos, knowing that only you two know the fundamental functions of one another 

everything is automized but i'm not letting it get to me